San Francisco - New York - Los Angeles
Asian & Chinese Matchmaker
for High- Achieving Professionals
You’ve built the career, the life, the reputation. Finding the right person shouldn’t be left to chance - or to another dating app.
I’m Cassindy Chao - 3rd generation Chinese matchmaker, and former Goldman Sachs and JP Morgan banker, introducing and personally connecting exceptional people to find their partner - the “One”.
Work with an Asian Matchmaker - We bring the experience, care and cultural expertise to help our clients shine and succeed.
Elite Matchmaking & Cultural Stewardship
Former Goldman Sachs & JP Morgan Securities investment banker, married mother of three, and a 3rd generation Chinese matchmaker with over 35 years of relationship expertise.
I understand what it means to be a high-achieving professional navigating love with cultural expectations, a demanding career, and a real desire for something lasting. I’ve lived it. I started matchmaking in college at Wellesley, long before it became my business. I’ve helped hundreds of others through it.
My clients are UHNW individuals and ambitious, educated professionals who are serious about finding the right partner, not just the next date.
As a third-generation 紅娘 (Asian Matchmaker), I founded AWM Love to bring old-world intention to modern dating. Our clients are accomplished UHNW individuals and ambitious, educated professionals across SF, LA, and NYC who are done with the apps and ready for something real. If you’ve been searching for an Asian matchmaker who understands both culture and chemistry, this is what a bespoke Asian matchmaking service with a Chinese matchmaker is meant to feel like.
I’m the author of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Love: Chinese Wisdom for Dating Success, and I built AWM Love to bring that three-generation lineage of 紅娘 matchmaking to the professionals who need it most today: people who are exceptional at everything except making time for their own love life. I don’t run an algorithm. I get to know you — and then I go find the person your parents, and your own instincts, would approve of.
And getting it right matters. When the signals get confusing, it helps to work with an Asian matchmaker who can vet intentions before you invest your time.
The Asian Matchmaking Service to Get YOU Out on Great Dates
Featured In
Business Insider — How a Goldman Sachs Banker Became One of America’s Top Asian Matchmakers
NEWSNATION — Feb 2026 — We need to be open to meeting someone special
Premium Matchmaking
You’ve Done Everything Right. Yet, it’s Hard to Find the “One”
You’re accomplished. You’re educated. You’ve built something real. And yet finding a partner who truly fits - someone who gets your background, your ambition, your family - feels impossible through the usual channels. Most of my clients are the person everyone assumes has it all figured out - the tech founder, the doctor, the hedge fund executive… What my clients don’t have is time, or they are so focused that they are in the same social circles. That’s where a professional Asian Matchmaker changes the equation and balances the odds in our client’s favor.
Dating apps weren’t built for you. They’re built for volume. You don’t need more options. You need the right one.
Years of setting up Great Dates
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We Learn About You
It starts with a real conversation about who you are looking for, what has and hasn’t worked, and how you want to feel when you finally meet the right person.
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We Map Your Match
Our team meets, reviews our private membership, and makes sure we have a clear line of sight to the partner you’re describing, before we ever ask you to commit.
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Your Proposal
We walk you through a tailored plan and clear pricing options. No pressure and no surprises, just a path you can say yes to with confidence.
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We Position You
We help you put your most authentic self forward, from styling and photos to how you show up on a date. Small, thoughtful refinements make a remarkable difference.
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We Introduce & Refine
We present hand-selected candidates and tell you exactly why we believe in each one. You date, we listen, and together we narrow in on the right person.
Years of setting up Great Dates
Matchmaking Testimonials
Cassindy has been a matchmaker since her college days at Wellesley. She helped me identify my now husband. He is my one true love. He understands, accepts, and celebrates me. Without her sage advice, I would not be married today.
S.C. & M.D.
Matched Couple
Our backgrounds were very similar, and we had lot in common, yet we would not have met without her nudge. We fell in love the day we first met and we've been married ever since. Cassindy is our trusted friend for life!
K.S. & B.N.
Matched Couple
Married
Cassindy helped us to run a terrific program for bringing local business leaders together in Los Angeles Little Tokyo and had the audience building new and meaningful connections. She cares about community building.
Kevin C.
Matched Couple
Married
Getting married during the pandemic was an adjustment and we made it work. Now you can add another success story to your list!
PL & RS
Matched Couple
Married
Our Services
Signature Service
Date Concierge
Get dating strategies and solutions to help improve your success. Ideal for post-divorce or difficult break-up situations, and unsuccessful dating patterns.
Personalized Strategy Sessions
Dating Profile Refinement
Ongoing Coaching & Support
Premier Service
VIP Matchmaking
Our premier service offers quality bespoke introductions. In-depth and personalized process requires our dedication and resources on behalf of our clients.
Ready for a real introduction?
If your result makes you curious about what a personal introduction feels like, let’s talk. The first call is free — and it might be the most important conversation you have this year.
